Watch the world folder: auto spawn/upgrade, broker watch/unwatch, retire scan

The host watches the whole world folder recursively with the notify crate
(any writer counts, .sausage-tmp-* skipped, ~100 ms coalescing per path).
A new or changed actor/<id>/actor.wasm (or new folder actor/<id>) is
booted as at start once quiet: new = spawn (tested first), changed =
upgrade. The broker `scan` request is gone; the boot pass stays, plus a
full pass when the OS watcher overflows.

New broker requests watch/unwatch {path} (saved in actor.json `watches`)
deliver fs_changed {path, op: write|create|remove|rename, to?} from `fs`,
not routed, dropped when the mailbox is full; overflow sends every watcher
one fs_changed {path:"/actor", op:"rescan"}.

Card #91 (multi-host step 1).

Cargo.lock

@@ -678,6 +678,15 @@ dependencies = [
  "windows-sys 0.59.0",
 ]
 
+[[package]]
+name = "fsevent-sys"
+version = "4.1.0"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "76ee7a02da4d231650c7cea31349b889be2f45ddb3ef3032d2ec8185f6313fd2"
+dependencies = [
+ "libc",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "futures"
 version = "0.3.34"
@@ -1066,6 +1075,26 @@ dependencies = [
  "serde_core",
 ]
 
+[[package]]
+name = "inotify"
+version = "0.11.5"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "4cc00ea907cab49550b7da656f80ebb97be1b997d931fbcd28d39734e17ce592"
+dependencies = [
+ "bitflags",
+ "inotify-sys",
+ "libc",
+]
+
+[[package]]
+name = "inotify-sys"
+version = "0.1.8"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "c033f80b2c113cdf91ab7a33faa9cbc014726dcad99880c8609af2a370edf37d"
+dependencies = [
+ "libc",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "instant"
 version = "0.1.13"
@@ -1165,6 +1194,26 @@ dependencies = [
  "wasm-bindgen",
 ]
 
+[[package]]
+name = "kqueue"
+version = "1.2.1"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "8d763e5b24120b4ddf50de6c92308156765aabfbbccebf401da7cff2d70a41ea"
+dependencies = [
+ "kqueue-sys",
+ "libc",
+]
+
+[[package]]
+name = "kqueue-sys"
+version = "1.1.2"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "07293a4e297ac234359b510362495713f75ea345d5307140414f20c69ffeb087"
+dependencies = [
+ "bitflags",
+ "libc",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "leb128"
 version = "0.2.7"
@@ -1259,6 +1308,7 @@ source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
 checksum = "1788edb87fdc09c7e26304471e2f5be8cdefb1b6930d6e3985fc02ff53bf86ee"
 dependencies = [
  "libc",
+ "log",
  "wasi",
  "windows-sys 0.61.2",
 ]
@@ -1269,6 +1319,33 @@ version = "1.0.0"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
 checksum = "743fb55ba31b18fb1ecef6bdc9aa2743314978ac084044301a7eee33fb99a20d"
 
+[[package]]
+name = "notify"
+version = "8.2.0"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "4d3d07927151ff8575b7087f245456e549fea62edf0ec4e565a5ee50c8402bc3"
+dependencies = [
+ "bitflags",
+ "fsevent-sys",
+ "inotify",
+ "kqueue",
+ "libc",
+ "log",
+ "mio",
+ "notify-types",
+ "walkdir",
+ "windows-sys 0.60.2",
+]
+
+[[package]]
+name = "notify-types"
+version = "2.1.0"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "42b8cfee0e339a0337359f3c88165702ac6e600dc01c0cc9579a92d62b08477a"
+dependencies = [
+ "bitflags",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "object"
 version = "0.40.0"
@@ -1580,6 +1657,15 @@ version = "1.0.23"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
 checksum = "cf54715a573b99ac80df0bc206da022bcd442c974952c7b9720069370852e21f"
 
+[[package]]
+name = "same-file"
+version = "1.0.6"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "93fc1dc3aaa9bfed95e02e6eadabb4baf7e3078b0bd1b4d7b6b0b68378900502"
+dependencies = [
+ "winapi-util",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "sausage"
 version = "0.1.0"
@@ -1590,6 +1676,7 @@ dependencies = [
  "http",
  "http-body-util",
  "include_dir",
+ "notify",
  "serde",
  "serde_json",
  "tokio",
@@ -2075,6 +2162,16 @@ version = "1.2.0"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
 checksum = "317211a0dc0ceedd78fb2ca9a44aed3d7b9b26f81870d485c07122b4350673b7"
 
+[[package]]
+name = "walkdir"
+version = "2.5.0"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "29790946404f91d9c5d06f9874efddea1dc06c5efe94541a7d6863108e3a5e4b"
+dependencies = [
+ "same-file",
+ "winapi-util",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "want"
 version = "0.3.2"